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What Does Love Mean?

See How 4-8 Year-Old Kids Describe Love. I copied this to my blog so I can read it when I need to remember the last answer.

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds: “What does love mean?”

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think…

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“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”

Rebecca – age 8

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“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

Billy – age 4

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“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

Terri – age 4

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“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

Danny – age 7

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“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.”

Emily – age 8

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“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”

Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)

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“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.”

Nikka – age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

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“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”

Noelle – age 7

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“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”

Tommy – age 6

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“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.

He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”

Cindy – age 8

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“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”

Elaine – age 5

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“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”

Chris – age 7

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“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”

Mary Ann – age 4

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“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” (Now THIS is love!)

Lauren – age 4

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“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image!)

Karen – age 7

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“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”

Mark – age 6

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“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

Jessica – age 8

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And the final one…

Here’s the one that made me cry: It was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

“Nothing, I just helped him cry.”

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Something of Interest to Watch

It’s sad when an approaching tropical storm becomes something exciting and you actually anticipate it.

I will follow the storm as it approaches on the NOAA Hurricane Website. NOAA Hurricane information

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Not so bad…

I read this narrative and realize I’ve got it pretty good.

    For a small amount of perspective at this moment, imagine you were born in 1900. When you are 14, World War I starts and ends on your 18th birthday with 22 million people killed. Later in the year, a Spanish Flu epidemic hits the planet and runs until you are 20. Fifty million people die from it in those two years. Yes, 50 million.

    When you’re 29, the Great Depression begins. Unemployment hits 25%, global GDP drops 27%. That runs until you are 33. The country nearly collapses along with the world economy. When you turn 39, World War II starts. You aren’t even over the hill yet.

    When you’re 41, the United States is fully pulled into WWII. Between your 39th and 45th birthday, 75 million people perish in the war and the Holocaust kills six million. At 52, the Korean War starts, and five million perish.

    Approaching your 62nd birthday you have the Cuban Missile Crisis, a tipping point in the Cold War. Life on our planet, as we know it, could well have ended. Great leaders prevented that from happening.

    At 64 the Vietnam War begins, and it doesn’t end for many years. Four million people die in that conflict.

    As you turn 75, the Vietnam War finally ends. Think of everyone on the planet born in 1900. How do you survive all of that? A kid in 1985 didn’t think their 85-year-old grandparent understood how hard school was. Yet those grandparents (and now great grandparents) survived through everything listed above.

    Perspective is an amazing art. Let’s try and keep things in perspective. Let’s be smart, help each other out, and we will get through all of this. In the history of the world, there has never been a storm that lasted. This too shall pass.

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I sometimes feel I have a sad situation because I’m alone and I’m more lonely than I’ve ever been, but when I evaluate my life, I’m truly comfortable.

  • I have a sweet companion dog. Sophie is a lover!
  • I have a lovely residence and in December, I had storm proof windows installed so no hurricane will bother me.
  • I’m financially secure so I can hire a cleaning person, a handyman, and any other help I need.
  • I have a full pantry, freezer and refrigerator. (But if I want to order a delivered dinner, that’s ok too.)
  • I can shop for anything I want online. I often have my groceries delivered so I don’t have to go into grocery stores.
  • I can watch TV all day, or read a book or do whenever I feel like. I can play an online game of Euchre or assemble an online jigsaw puzzle. I’ve even found online music concerts.
  • The view from my great room is fantastic. I watch deer, birds, and lots of critters. The walkers and golf cart drivers show there are other people.
  • I’m comfortable.
  • Yup, my life is pretty good. I can’t complain. I promise to be more appreciative and less negative about my situation.

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    Changing my focus

    I signed up for Our Time dating service some time ago and I’ve met a couple guys.

    With the covid-19 virus statistics growing, I am even more protective of myself. I realize I don’t want to risk being close to someone who could pass it to me. I definitely don’t feel any guy is worth taking a chance.

    My most recent “date” came over an we stayed about 10 feet apart. He wanted us to go to a restaurant that he feels is “safe.” I don’t want to lower my guard.

    But I suppose that’s all an excuse. If I felt he was a genuine connection, I’d do it. I can tell there’s no compatibility. His politics, attitude, values, direction, are all different than mine. All I want is someone who will call me and we can become friends. I don’t need a “lover.”

    I am realizing that for me Sophie is better company than any guy I’ve met.

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    Not much happening

    My pool reservations have been cancelled twice because of storms. I have a pool reservation for tomorrow from 5 to 8. Just checked and here’s the Accuweather forecast during my pool time: “Mostly cloudy w/ t-storms.”

    Being outside is difficult when it’s 90+ degrees. This afternoon, as an example, it’ll be 93 degrees and the humidity forecast says: 62% (Dangerously Humid).

    It’s funny that the Covid-19 virus is so ingrained in me now that it bothers me to see folks hugging on TV, even in movies that we made years ago.

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    Doing a bit more

    I can’t count how many TV movies I watched this past weekend. Didn’t go to the pool at all. I had an angry scrape on my ankle and didn’t want it in the pool.

    Today Connie and Pat are coming over. We’ll have our meal from the Portico at the South Clubhouse. It’ll be so nice to visit with good friends.

    I do have a pool reservation Friday. (Doctor appointment Thursday, Sportsman’s Club meeting and Squad on Wednesday.)

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    Cancelled Pooltime

    Well, my pool enthusiasm didn’t last long.

    I went to the pool the 3rd, 4th, and 5th of July but cancelled today’s reservation. I realized I didn’t enjoy the HOT water. It was so warm that most everyone left within 30 minutes. I hung around for 45 but dreaded today. (Although it may have been a degree or two cooler because it did rain last night.) I’ll attend Irene’s Zoom wine and cheese party today and stay cool (inside).

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    First Pool Day

    It was fun at the Pool. Water was too warm but I’m glad I went. Met some nice single ladies. I plan to go back every day I can. I need the interaction with others. It’ll also give me a nice tan and I’ll get some exercise.

    I’m sure it’s the best thing I can do to resolve my “funk.”

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    Fixing My Funk

    Posted Wednesday, July 1st, on Facebook…

    I’ve been staying inside most of the time. I’m really lonely. Usually I’d have been looking forward to a visit from my daughter (Kelly) even if it was a bit in the future. I’d have planned for the dances and parties that were always on my schedule (usually 2 to 4 monthly). My two or three times a week Euchre games have been eliminated. With nothing happening, I’m getting into a major funk that even Sophie can’t help me avoid. So today I decided to loosen up a bit. I made a reservation to go to the South Club Pool on the 4th of July from 5-7pm. (That pool is about a minute golf cart ride from my condo. For many years, John and I were daily regulars there but as his condition worsened, I couldn’t leave him. I’ve only been there once on my own.) If I have a good time, I’ll book frequently and it’ll give me something to look forward to. The pool’s virus protection routine is very structured with only about half of the regular attendance admitted. Reservations are ahead and for only two hours. The lounge chairs are wiped down before the next session starts. You can’t bring in food or alcohol, but water is allowed. I’ll try it out and the 4th of July seemed like a time to plan something.

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    I went back and made a similar reservation for the 3rd of July. Why wait?

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    Thursday

    And I made one at the North Clubhouse for July 5th from 4-6. When I decide where I want to spend my time, I can make more but each can be no more than 3 days out.

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    Today’s July 3rd so this afternoon I’ll head to the South Club pool. I have been trying to figure out my meals. I’ll eat a light lunch and for dinner I decided that it would work best to pick up a Portico meal after the pool time. I can get out of the pool about 15 minutes early because they quit serving at 7:00.

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