I signed up for Our Time dating service some time ago and I’ve met a couple guys.

With the covid-19 virus statistics growing, I am even more protective of myself. I realize I don’t want to risk being close to someone who could pass it to me. I definitely don’t feel any guy is worth taking a chance.

My most recent “date” came over an we stayed about 10 feet apart. He wanted us to go to a restaurant that he feels is “safe.” I don’t want to lower my guard.

But I suppose that’s all an excuse. If I felt he was a genuine connection, I’d do it. I can tell there’s no compatibility. His politics, attitude, values, direction, are all different than mine. All I want is someone who will call me and we can become friends. I don’t need a “lover.”

I am realizing that for me Sophie is better company than any guy I’ve met.