A curfew from 9 p.m. to 5 a.m. in response to COVID-19 coronavirus will go into effect in Hillsborough County starting this evening, Monday, April 13.

In addition to maintaining 6-foot social distancing, the Centers for Disease Control advises the use of face coverings to slow the spread of the virus, and help people who may have the virus and do not know it from transmitting it to others.

*** FROM THE ODPC BOARD OF DIRECTORS***

Due to the Covid-19 Pandemic the 2020 Funfest has been cancelled. This decision was not made lightly. We value each one of you and look forward to seeing everyone at the 2021 Funfest.

Thank you for your continued support and vigilance.

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This festival, the Original Dulcimer Players Club’s Funfest has been on-going since 1973. It doesn’t seem possible that it won’t be held this year.

This period of isolation is going to be remembered by all of us for the rest of our lives.

It’s such a challenging time. A challenge to stay up-beat. A challenge to believe that this will pass and maybe someday we’ll return to the glorious life we have enjoyed here in Florida.

The numbers of those who have tested positive continues to rise. We haven’t reached the peak yet.

Today is Easter. I predict this mess will continue into the Thanksgiving/Christmas holidays. And I fear that we’ll never go back to being comfortable in a crowd. I hope we will survive but our lives will be forever changed.

I’m having my groceries brought to me and I either drive up or have a treat restaurant meal delivered. I even had a bouquet delivered a week or so ago.

When it’s not too hot, I enjoy my patio and lanai. (Today it’s going to be in the low 90’s!!)

Sophie has saved me from loneliness. And I watch a lot of TV and Netflix. It could be worse.

Surprisingly I haven’t accomplished anything. I still have a messy closet and the bins I brought from Michigan haven’t been checked over. I haven’t re-strug my harp nor taken my dulcimer out of it’s case. There’s still lots of time to do some of those things.

My lack of nail and beauty shop care is bothering me but there’s no one to see me anyway.

I can’t imagine ever returning to dances and parties. That’s what I miss the most.

Will we ever have fun again? It seems unlikely but that’s not the kind of attitude I want to promote.

TV has shown stories of life before the epidemic. Somehow it seems foreign and yet it was just a couple months ago. When it started we felt it would be okay in days, then weeks, and now it’s months…. many months.

I always get a little panicky when I think about Income Taxes. My investment guy, Rick, at Ameriprise, watches my accounts and makes sure that most of my “income” won’t generate taxes due. My portfolio earned a nice amount in 2019, so I was/am concerned.

Because of the virus shutdowns, I knew there was an extension for all taxpayers extending the tax due date to July, nevertheless I feared that my owed amount might really be significant so I called my CPA today. Marie, my accountant, told me she wasn’t looking at my account but felt certain from memory that I’m getting a refund!!

I am relieved. I know my portfolio has really taken a hit because of the impact on the economy by the virus. Thank heavens in the past few days it’s shown some recovery.

Apparently I’ll be getting the $1,200 incentive from the government and now a refund from my taxes. Great news!

I hope the two sides of 674 here in Sun City Center can unite as one friendly cohesive community. Maybe we can go back to the way things were for many years.

When we’re in post-virus status, I hope we’ll still enjoy the sunsets and going for a walk.

I hope folks appreciate the stuff we’d previously taken for granted. It would be nice if we could maintain this slower pace.

It would be nice if we’d still check on each other. It’s comforting to hear, “Are you ok?” It’s not just a mindless question. Folks are really concerned.

We now cherish and use sparingly toilet tissue, kleenex, and paper towels. Maybe we’ve learned to be more frugal with less waste.

Because of travel restrictions, some snowbirds from our community are “stuck here” and can’t go back to their northern homes. When they are finally able to return, I am sure they’ll feel grateful and appreciate their homes more than they have. When you think about it, many are fortunate to have two lovely homes. Few countries have such wealth.

Gas price $1.89
School cancelled – yes cancelled
Self-distancing measures on the rise.
Tape on the floors at grocery stores and others to help distance shoppers (6ft) from each other.
Limited number of people inside stores, therefore, lineups outside the store doors.
Non-essential stores and businesses mandated closed.
Parks, trails, entire cities locked up.
Entire sports seasons cancelled.
Concerts, tours, festivals, entertainment events – cancelled.
Weddings, family celebrations, holiday gatherings – cancelled.
Churches and temples are closed.
No gatherings of 50 or more, then 20 or more, now 10 or less.
Don’t socialize with anyone outside of your home.
Children’s outdoor play parks are closed.
We are to distance from each other.
Shortage of masks, gowns, gloves for our front-line workers.
Shortage of ventilators for the critically ill.
Panic buying sets in and we have no toilet paper, no disinfecting supplies, no paper towels no laundry soap, no hand sanitizer.
Shelves are bare.
Manufacturers, distilleries and other businesses switch their lines to help make visors, masks, hand sanitizer and PPE.
Government closes the border to all non-essential travel.
Fines are established for breaking the rules.
Stadiums and recreation facilities open up for the overflow of Covid-19 patients.
Press conferences daily from the President. Daily updates on new cases, recoveries, and deaths.
Government incentives to stay home.
Barely anyone on the roads.
People wearing masks and gloves outside.
Essential service workers are terrified to go to work.
Medical field workers are afraid to go home to their families.

Note: Some of this I copied from another person’s post but I revised most of it to fit me better.

This is the Novel Coronavirus (Covid-19) Pandemic, declared March 11th, 2020.

After I’d gone to bed last night I heard rain hitting my windows. Hopefully that’ll calm the pollen. The air seems fresher but I haven’t been in it enough to know if my allergy problems have been resolved.

As of March 29th Sun City Center reports three Covid_19 cases. Nearby Apollo Beach has two more.

I’m observing the stay at home rules, but last night I did take Sophie for a golf cart ride. We didn’t get close to anyone. There were groups of carts parked the appropriate distance apart. Everyone is feeling isolated.

Because of the corona virus we’re basically quarantined so we can’t (or shouldn’t) go out. Making sure I have everything I need has been a challenge.

I’ve been ordering stuff through Instacart which allows me to shop at Publix and Aldi and delivers things to me. Each time I’ve ordered, some stuff has been out-of-stock but finally I have nearly everything I’ll need for the long-haul.

Eventually I’ll crave more variety but I’m in truly good shape.

What I’m missing most is company. I’d love to invite someone over but that’s not acceptable.

I am avoiding contamination so I haven’t been interacting with anyone. The county has issued a “safer-at-home” order so I can’t (legally) have visitors anyway.

I’d love to be outside (even on the lanai or patio) but the oak pollen is high and I’m very susceptible so I have to avoid it. I could wear a surgical mask (which I have) but they’re realllllly hot and it’ll be 90 today. I’m therefore inside looking out.

There’s lots to watch: squirrels, bikers, birds, cranes, golf cart drivers, dogs, walkers, and even a skinny fox this morning.

Sophie has been a true blessing. She’s so much company. She follows me everywhere. I can’t go to the bathroom without hearing her pitiful crying at the door. At least I’m not talking to myself.

With time to spare today, I decided to review http://sharons-blog.com. I’ve been keeping a blog since 2006. Today my review went back to May 2018, when John died. It was interesting to read how my life has changed since I’ve been on my own.

The greatest changes have occurred the past few months. The corona virus with all the shut-downs and closings and being sick with a bad cold, have made the biggest changes.

This serious virus has caused the cancellation of EVERYTHING. Everyone is forced to stay inside. Therefore I’m feeling alone, hence the review of my past couple of years.

This week it’s been even worse because Wednesday I had a basal cell skin cancer removed from my upper right lip. I’m left with a huge bandaged area. It’s a good time to be stuck inside since I don’t want anyone to see me. Hopefully the scar won’t be too great but it’s in a bad spot (from the nostril to the edge of my lip). I’ll have the stitches removed Monday.

Today I found reviewing my blog was an eye opener.

When John first died, I as very conscious of my finances. Now I’m relaxed. I know I’ll never be able to spend what John and I built together. I don’t give much thought to what’s going out of my account. I have my nails done every three weeks, I have my house cleaned every other Saturday, I’m even having groceries and meals delivered. It’s nice to feel financially set for life!

With the shutdown of all activities to avoid spreading the virus, I’m missing euchre, dances, and friends. I have enough food and supplies stored up so I’m in great shape.

When I look at my calendar, I see weeks of emptiness. I hope the quarantines are removed so I can go to the pool, go to dances, and enjoy myself.

My allergies are also limiting but once the pollen is washed away, I’m sure I’ll be fine.

This area hasn’t had rained for a looooonnnng time! If it would rain it would wash the pollen out of the air and I’d do better with my allergies. They are driving me crazy!

The invasion of the corona_19 virus has shut down our community.

As of Monday, 3/15/2020, none of the buildings in KP or in SCC will be open. The pools, fitness centers, etc. will all be closed because of the fear of the coronavirus.

I was scheduled to go on a bus/boat trip tomorrow. It’s been postponed/canceled. I’m relieved. I didn’t want to board a bus but hated to lose almost $80.

So I’m stuck inside. It’s ok with me.

Back in 1963, I caught the Asian Flu and almost died. I couldn’t go to the hospital because the hospitals were full. I had a temperature over 105!!! I was so sick I couldn’t walk to the bathroom. I remember the news spreading warnings about that long ago problem. It was real. I’ve never been so sick!!

I hope none of our residents get this coronavirus. It sounds especially bad for senior citizens (US!)

I have to go out today to mail my tax info to my accountant. It’ll be the first time I’ve really left my condo. (I did go to the clubhouse the other day to pick up a carry out order but went when it wasn’t busy and didn’t touch or talk to anyone.)

I feel safe inside but I guess I can’t stall any longer.

I’m still not 100% but better and maybe fresh air will help,

I’ve been sick for over a week with this horrible cold. I’ve stayed in completely so I wasn’t coming into contact with anyone (for both their and my protection).

Tonight I was going to get a carry-out meal from KP South Clubhouse but decided that it wasn’t worth the risk of spreading my cold to someone or contracting something in my weakened condition. I went on-line and ordered an Asian dinner from China 1 in Apollo Beach to be delivered by Door Dash. (Everything was paid for on line, including the tip.)

Yes, it cost me considerably more, but it’s worth it to be safe. I put instructions on my order that the doorbell was to be rung, my meal placed by the door, and I’d come out and get it. There was no close contact with the delivery person. We all need to start thinking of protecting ourselves and others. When you’re sick, it doesn’t take much to plan ahead and and avoid contact with others.

Living in a senior community it’s even more important that we are pro-active.

I’m on my fourth day of a lousy cold.

I promised a friend, that if I’m not better by Thursday, I’ll go to the doctor. Actually I think I’m feeling slightly better this afternoon.

I have been asked to go to dinner at Circles (the area’s nicest restaurant) for my 78th birthday tomorrow, but I doubt that I’ll be up to it.

With all the talk on the news of the killer coronavirus, I’m very aware of spreading my cold and the ramifications of being “run down” and exposing others to even a cold virus. I asked for a substitute Sunday when I was supposed to work at the Squad. I’m thinking that I may ask for another sub on Monday, unless I’ve greatly improved.

I am planning to take even better care of myself than I have been.

When it comes to being prepared for a disease that’s spreading fast with horrid, fatal consequences, I have ordered zinc lozenges and surgical masks. I’m actually thinking about limiting my outings to golf cart rides and skipping the dances and close-up encounters. I want to live a nice long, healthy life.

For those of you concerned about the coronavirus.

The original person who posted this was a professor of pathology at the University of California San Diego. He explained he was one of the first molecular virologists in the world to work on coronaviruses (the 1970s). He was the first to demonstrate the number of genes the virus contained. Since then, he has kept up with the coronavirus field and its multiple clinical transfers into the human population (e.g., SARS, MERS), from different animal sources.

He said:

The current projections for its expansion in the US are only probable, due to continued insufficient worldwide data, but it is most likely to be widespread in the US by mid to late March and April.

Here is what I have done and the precautions that I take and will take. These are the same precautions I currently use during our influenza seasons, except for the mask and gloves.:

1) NO HANDSHAKING! Use a fist bump, slight bow, elbow bump, etc.

2) Use ONLY your knuckle to touch light switches. elevator buttons, etc.. Lift the gasoline dispenser with a paper towel or use a disposable glove.

3) Open doors with your closed fist or hip – do not grasp the handle with your hand, unless there is no other way to open the door. Especially important on bathroom and post office/commercial doors.

4) Use disinfectant wipes at the stores when they are available, including wiping the handle and child seat in grocery carts.

5) Wash your hands with soap for 10-20 seconds and/or use a greater than 60% alcohol-based hand sanitizer whenever you return home from ANY activity that involves locations where other people have been.

6) Keep a bottle of sanitizer available at each of your home’s entrances. AND in your car for use after getting gas or touching other contaminated objects when you can’t immediately wash your hands.

7) If possible, cough or sneeze into a disposable tissue and discard. Use your elbow only if you have to. The clothing on your elbow will contain infectious virus that can be passed on for up to a week or more!

What I have stocked in preparation for the pandemic spread to the US:

1) Latex or nitrile latex disposable gloves for use when going shopping, using the gasoline pump, and all other outside activity when you come in contact with contaminated areas.

Note: This virus is spread in large droplets by coughing and sneezing. This means that the air will not infect you! BUT all the surfaces where these droplets land are infectious for about a week on average – everything that is associated with infected people will be contaminated and potentially infectious. The virus is on surfaces and you will not be infected unless your unprotected face is directly coughed or sneezed upon. This virus only has cell receptors for lung cells (it only infects your lungs) The only way for the virus to infect you is through your nose or mouth via your hands or an infected cough or sneeze onto or into your nose or mouth.

2) Stock up now with disposable surgical masks and use them to prevent you from touching your nose and/or mouth (We touch our nose/mouth 90X/day without knowing it!). This is the only way this virus can infect you – it is lung-specific. The mask will not prevent the virus in a direct sneeze from getting into your nose or mouth – it is only to keep you from touching your nose or mouth.

3) Stock up now with hand sanitizers and latex/nitrile gloves (get the appropriate sizes for your family). The hand sanitizers must be alcohol-based and greater than 60% alcohol to be effective.

4) Stock up now with zinc lozenges. These lozenges have been proven to be effective in blocking coronavirus (and most other viruses) from multiplying in your throat and nasopharynx. Use as directed several times each day when you begin to feel ANY “cold-like” symptoms beginning. It is best to lie down and let the lozenge dissolve in the back of your throat and nasopharynx. Cold-Eeze lozenges is one brand available, but there are other brands available.

I, as many others do, hope that this pandemic will be reasonably contained, BUT I personally do not think it will be. Humans have never seen this snake-associated virus before and have no internal defense against it. Tremendous worldwide efforts are being made to understand the molecular and clinical virology of this virus. Unbelievable molecular knowledge about the genomics, structure, and virulence of this virus has already been achieved. BUT, there will be NO drugs or vaccines available this year to protect us or limit the infection within us. Only symptomatic support is available.

I hope these personal thoughts will be helpful during this potentially catastrophic pandemic. You are welcome to share this email. Good luck to all of us!

His name is Jim. I’m glad to pass it on.

The cart path directly behind my condo is used by those folks walking dogs, riding bikes, jogging, or strolling. The temperature is obvious by watching how those folks are dressed.

Currently it’s in the low 70’s and folks are in short-sleeved tops. No sweatshirts. This morning they were bundled up for the chilly temps. It’s like a visual thermometer. I don’t have to look at the actual numbers.

The trees and the birds also provide clues. Cool temps but warm sun brings encourages the birds to stretch out where the sun warms them.

I can’t tell the temps just by the sunshine. Too many times I’ve been fooled by what appears to be a bright, sunny, lovely day only to find it’s cold.

But the folks on the path are never wrong. By the time they get to my condo, they’re dressed for the temperature.

I’m overly scheduled.

I need to get ready for the Pizza Party on the 21st but it has been hard to find time to go shopping. I have dinners, shopping, race track adventures and lots of fun stuff. I’m not complaining. Life is good.

I remember when the company that hosted my 13 websites referred to me as their “oldest techie geek.” I’m no longer a geek. I’m totally behind times when it comes to technology.

I rode in a new car Wednesday with all the high tech internet features. I was lost. My car doesn’t have a screen nor the ability to retrieve my texts or emails. I’m just an old, out of the loop lady. I never thought it would happen to me. I was the first among those I knew to get a computer. I bought a website the day they went on sale (dulcimers.com). But now I’m out of it and the worst thing is, I truly don’t care if I “catch up.” It seems like it would be too difficult.

I’d like my car to be more loaded, but I am still driving my 2004 Mercedes so until I buy a new one, I won’t have all the bells and whistles.

Windy today with a promise of rain tonight.

I hurried home from my Emergency Squad shift but the predicted storm is still a few hours away. I don’t feel like going to Rockin Rendezvous. Car parking is always difficult and I probably wouldn’t want to risk going by golf cart.

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About midnight (I think it was) a severe warning came in on my cell and I was rudely awakened. A possible tornado was approaching. I did a mental inventory and remembered my three hanging plants on my patio so ran out in my sleepwear to move them to safety. In my hurry, I forgot to turn off my security system which loudly treated me as an intruder. I shut it off, moved the plants (while keeping Sophie in the house). Shortly after that, the storm hit. Lots of rain and storm noise but thankfully no tornado. Needless to say, it was difficult going back to sleep.

My late husband was a gem. He was careful with his spending and therefore he left me debt free with no financial worries. The other day I met with Rick, my financial advisor, who said I can loosen up my purse strings and buy whatever makes me happy.

With that in mind, I purchased a few things: I subscribed to the Tampa Bay Times for Wednesday and Sunday delivery. I’ve vowed to have my nails done every three weeks. I bought six new tops on line, a couple jackets and a cozy robe.

I also paid a couple bills but for an extra year (like my car license tabs). I also pre-paid for the 2020 year of assessments to go to the SCC Singles Dances.

It’s hard to spend money when you’ve been trained to watch your pennies.

I’ve really been under the weather with allergies to the oak pollen which is covering everything.

Last night I’d had it so I upped my allergy meds and it helped! Feeling much better today.

When I’m not quite up to par, I often say I’m “half bubble off” which is a builder’s comment referring to using a level and not quite being on the mark.

My allergies have been acting up. Yup, here in this zone, the native oak trees are producing heavy pollen. I made the mistake of opening up the house one day when it was lovely. Yes, breeze was nice, but the pollen came in and now even with my air purifier running on high, I’m affected by it.

My nose runs and I’m sneezy. Actually I don’t feel sick, but stuffy.

Apparently Sophie hasn’t been feeling too good either. She had a digestive problem which resulted in lots of messes overnight. She’s almost back to normal now.

Weather has been changeable. It’s lovely for a few days, then cool for a few. Right now we’re heading into a period when we’ll be in the 70s. Not really cold but not pool weather.

My little “bug” took a lot out of me. I’ve been worn out all week.

Feeling good but constantly tired! I’ve been in been by 10 pm and I’ve slept-in until about 8 am (but I wake up several times over night).

After Kelly left I took a deep breath and relaxed with Sophie who apparently was glad to have Mom to herself because she became very clingy and attentive.

Seemed like a busy week until Friday when I felt sick!! Yup, I feared I had my annual cold so I loaded up on orange juice and decided to totally rest. Saturday I felt better and today (Sunday), I’m even better. Still taking it easy. Hopefully by tomorrow I’ll be even better.

I’m alone now but December 21st my daughter and son-in-law arrived. Dave stayed until the 28th and Kelly left January 4th.

We had a great visit!

While Dave was here, on December 22nd we went to the traditional church service at the SCC Methodist Church. The 23rd we went to Tai Chi and Kel & Dave played billiards. I also gave them a tour. The 24th (Christmas Eve day) we took a trip to Lake Wales for an airboat ride through a swampy area looking for gators. It was a cold day and the gators were staying down in the water where it was warmer for them. That evening we went to the candlelight church service (lovely!) Christmas Day, on our way to Sunset Grill Little Harbor, we saw a huge gator close to our condo. The 26th we went to Tampa Downs horse races. Friday the 27th to Goodson’s strawberry farm for pressed Cuban sandwiches and shortcakes and a fish dinner at Fiore’s. When we weren’t going someplace we watched movies, played dominoes, enjoyed pizza, and did cart rides.

After a week, Dave left on Saturday the 28th.

The first day with just Kelly, we went to Bealls shopping. Returned to Goodson’s strawberry farm where I’d left a credit card and on to Sam’s Club. Church on Sunday, the 29th. More Bealls. Monday, the 30th, we had tickets for Shelby Gardens in Sarasota. It was a holiday light show and beautiful!! New Year’s Eve on the 31st was a fun boat trip by Latitudes Cruises. They served a Texas Roadhouse steak dinner. The small group on board (about 25 plus crew) viewed the fireworks, drank wine, and danced. Got safely home close to 3 AM!!! Slept in. The crowd was boisterous and friendly. Great way to bring in the new year. Lazy day on the 1st. On Thursday, the 2nd, we played afternoon Bingo and ate burgers at the South Clubhouse. Friday a couple of my girlfriends (Connie and Pat) came over and the four of us had a nice lunch then played dominos. Most evenings we watched movies on TV. We also played dominoes, and went on cart rides.

Saturday Kelly was picked up for the airport at 1:30. Lazy afternoon for me. Miss her!

Kelly and Dave, my daughter and SIL, have been visiting for nearly a week. We’ve stayed really busy and for the first time, I’ve gotten to know Kelly’s awesome husband. They are a perfect couple. Considerate of each other, helpful, and wonderfully sensitive.

They have been married since 2003 but since they live in California, I really have never gotten to know Dave. Yes, we visited them in 2006 but we stayed in our RV parked in their driveway. Kelly flys here often, but this is Dave’s first visit. I hope he’s enjoying himself as much as I’m enjoying having him here.

Twice this week I’ve had the pleasant experience of meeting some nice guys. In both cases they were widowed only a few months ago and are at loose ends. They’re lonely and afraid to venture out.

I met the first one at a singles dance. It was his first time out. The other I met in the clubhouse. Both are pleasant and a bit older than me (80’s). I don’t want anything beyond a friendship but I feel both of these guys need someone to talk to. I would love to have a male friend who wanted to go to dinner or just talk on the phone.

My experiences are pointing out that men are more “lost” after the death of their mate. Women reach out to other women and can fill in with those friendships.

The first guy definitely wants a lady companion and I didn’t feel any attraction between us for even a casual friendship. I doubt if I’ll ever hear from him.

The other guy approached me and was chatty. After he found out I’m a widow, he wanted to know how I manage to fill the loneliness. I told him I got myself a dog.

We enjoyed a pleasant conversation. He was very nice. I hope he’ll call. I enjoyed talking with him.

I am certainly not trying to replace John, but I feel could help these gentlemen be more comfortable in their situations and I’d love to have a male friend.

You’d think a 5 pound dog would like small toys but her favorites are as big as she is. She drags them around and carries them up to her favorite relaxing spot: the couch.

Surprisingly she’s pretty good about keeping all of them in a “basket.” She usually only takes out one or maybe two at a time. (But she expects “Mom” to put them back at the end of the day.)

After Kelly leaves, I know I’ll feel a let-down.

I plan to have some new “projects” ready to go.

I want to bring in a professional to do window treatments in my two bedrooms and dining room. I’ve heard about a new place in Apollo Beach which I’d like to visit.

I finally need to do something about the big crack in the garage floor which will first require organizing everything out there and purging most of it.

And the decorative pavers still need to be put down on the driveway and sidewalk.

I really need to get rid of more stuff. My lovely storage room was supposed to be a solution, but I have stored a lot of “stuff” I don’t need or use. If I haven’t used it for the year and a half I’ve been back here from Michigan, I can get rid of it. That includes ice cream makers, pressure cookers, and lots more. John never got rid of anything so when we got a new toaster, the old one was stored away. Same is true of coffee pots, cookware, etc. I will get them out of here.

I’d like to figure out how to make better use of the dining room. Do I want it to become a den? Do I want a more modern light fixture? At least I need to make it a ‘pretty’ asset instead of a dumping spot. Same is true of the guest room. I’m sure I can make it a comfortable retreat for guests but more attractive.

I still need to get a replacement for the loveseat in the great room and a vanity for the master bathroom. I might get rid of my huge file cabinet in the master bedroom. (I don’t need something that big.) Kitchen cabinet doors still need to be up-graded, and my washer and dryer should be replaced. (It continues to do the job but they are old!!!)

I want this place to feel organized and more spacious by eliminating the extras. I am lazy so I’ll hire a lot to be done by others rather than doing it myself. This condo is my retreat and it’s nice but it can be “lovely.”

My new storm rated windows have been installed. I said I’ve never spent so much with so little to show for the expense. For the most part, the windows look like the old ones. They are easier to open but only the master bedroom is a different style (slider style instead of sash).

Before we changed the end of our greatroom from crank awning type multi-pane windows to sliders, we had a problem with whistling windows whenever there was a strong breeze. The storm rated sliders eliminated a lot of the sounds we had heard during a storm. The patio roof also helped. I thought it was as good as it could be. I never gave it a thought.

But now with all the rest of the windows very secure and double-pane, I’m noticing that the whole condo is quieter. I can’t hear the rain, the wind, the mowers or the garbage trucks.

The temperature variance over-night isn’t is pronounced. My room stays comfortable when I used to get really chilly when there was a drop in temperature.

It’s all peaceful and cozy.

I received a piece of mail marked “IMPORTANT JURY SUMMONS ENCLOSED.”

In Michigan, I was asked about 38 years ago to be on a jury but I had just had a brain tumor removed. When I explained that the surgery left me deaf on one side, the court permanently excused me. My inability to hear well could create a chance of a mistrial so they didn’t want me.

I realize jury duty is a privilege but I really don’t want to drive to downtown Tampa to “serve.” I don’t do much driving and the heavy traffic near the courthouse scares me.

I don’t know if my one-side deafness would excuse me, but I’m now 77 years old. Reading the summons, I found that if I’m over 70, I can ask for an exemption. I will. Chances are I will permanently be exempted.

Sorry I’m such a poor citizen but I’d hate to drive in that area.

Tonight, at my Nantucket V Association Christmas party, I sat with my neighbor, Terre. I really like her. She’s fun, cute, and energetic. She hinted strongly that I’ve let her down because I haven’t been posting to this blog regularly. She would like to be able to read my “adventures” daily.

I promised I’d do better but there really isn’t that much going on in my life.

My storm rated windows have been installed. A crew of three workers came in yesterday and finished up about 5:00 today. Hillsborough Country’s inspectors will have to approve before some of the trim boards can cover up the mounting screws but things can be put back in place and the interruption the past couple of days is now history.

I was pleased to hear from a lady at my table who installed the high end windows a couple years ago that her electric bills tumbled. She said she usually pays about $40 a month. I pay closer to $120-$140 most of the time and in the no heat/no air conditioning periods it’s generally $70-$80.

I commented to the installers that I’ve never spent so much and had so little to show for it. The windows don’t really look that different. They do open and close which the old ones didn’t but that’s about the only difference. In my bedroom, I have an awesome horizontal slider rather than the up and down (sash) windows).

Next big expense: window coverings. I think I’d like long room darkening drapes or else roman shades. I definitely want to get rid of the antiquated blinds. They’re dirty and don’t really filter out the light. I want to call a decorator. BUT not now. I don’t want to have things in upheaval when Kelly comes and she’ll be here in TWO weeks. Can’t wait.

The dinner tonight was excellent. It would have been more fun with a little more socializing and/or entertainment but after two days of workers, I was anxious to get home, put on a robe, and relax.

Sophie enjoyed some prime rib I brought home for her. I started by giving her half of what I’d brought but she devoured it so fast I didn’t have time to even get in the other room. I gave her the rest and she finished it all off. Actually I was glad she had a good meal. She didn’t eat while the guys were here working. Her food got old in her bowl and I finally tossed it.

I’m pooped. Cleaning guy, Ron, comes tomorrow at 8:30. The place is picked up but dusty and dirty. It needs a good cleaning, now that the renovation is complete.

I’ve just started having my nails manicured. I love the look but I found I could no longer get the clasps on necklaces to open and then fit them through the tiny loops. Putting on jewelry took forever. There were times when I just changed my choice so I could clasp it.

A few weeks ago I also bought a wheeled walker with a seat.

I want to continue to go to Busch Gardens and to places like a Christmas tour where walking is a must. I knew doing it would be a struggle. I bought the cart and now I feel more free. Kelly may want to stop and sit a bit too. I know if I had all the time in the world, I could do it, provided there were seats occasionally but this way I’m not depended on things being provided for me.

I still wish I had the electric cart I got for John, but this will be easier to manage. I remember how difficult it was to get the cart’s pieces in in the car. They were heavy. Together, we could lift them, but alone I’d have problems.

I want my body to last another 20 years. I need to recognize it’s limitations. Maybe if I use some of these “aids” I can function like I used to.

I recognize there’s little comparison between a magnetic necklace clasp and a wheeled walker, but they are both items I’m only using because I’m getting older.

I’m in a rut. I am a lousy cook and don’t like doing it. Occasionally I’ll make a batch of sloppy joes or maybe my chicken glop but I am not creative and my choices have been narrowing and narrowing.

I do best with frozen meals so I have my freezer stocked with Marie Callender’s chicken pot pies, Blakes shepherd pies, pizzas, ground sirloin patties, and a few Lean Cuisine dinners. I don’t starve but it’s not the healthiest diet. I need to eat more salads (and love them) but every time I buy lettuce, it turns brown before I use it up.

Recently I’ve added Cheerios cereal to my food list. I think I might get some other cereals too. That way I’m enjoying vitamin enriched food plus milk.

For breakfast I prefer two slices of raisin toast with lots of butter.

I need to lose at least 20 pounds. Watching what I eat isn’t working. I need to structure my diet so I can shed the weight.

I spent big money to buy some diet pills. I took them for three days and felt crappy. I found out the diet pills “cleanse” and this isn’t a good time to upset my digestive system. I will wait until after Kelly goes back to California and then try again. They might work when I’m not trying to do so much.

This week my new storm-rated windows will be installed. I will be stuck here Thursday and Friday. (I hope they are finished by 5pm on Friday when the Nantucket V Christmas Party starts.)

A week from today (Saturday) will be a day for my cleaning guy. I guess the window replacement job won’t destroy my place but I can’t be sure until it happens. Cleaning guy, Ron, will make it sparkle. Then I want the windows cleaned when Kelly and Dave come three weeks from today!

I’ve been having problems with my Simplisafe Security System. Come to find out my seven year old system it was no longer working correctly and the key pad wasn’t even functioning. I purchased a whole new system. They gave me a good deal and I was happy.

But because it malfunctioned and the sheriff was notified, I was fined $75 for a false alarm. I paid it. The sheriff did come unnecessarily.

With the new system in place I was comfortable but this morning I found that there was another false alarm. This time it happened because one of the door sensors didn’t stick to the frame and therefore the door was shown as opened. The alarm went off and I was called but I was sleeping soundly and didn’t hear the phone. If the police came, I didn’t answer the door. I still expect I’ll be fined $100.

I don’t think I’ll set the alarm until I’m sure there won’t be another alarm.

I was so tired last night that I slept right through the call that is always placed before they call the police. (I’d been awake since 4:30 a.m. so I was exhausted.)

I had my physical this week and my doctor recommended a prescription which “might” help my back. Instead it made me feel yucky. I’ve quit using it. Ibuprofen works better without the side effects. I know losing weight would help so I am going to try more exercise in hopes of reducing. I’m on a new weight loss plan. My goal is to lose about 20 pounds.

The weather today and yesterday has been lovely. At least 80 degrees. According to Accuweather, Wednesday it’ll be even nicer than today but tomorrow, Monday and Tuesday probably it’ll be a little cooler.

Last night I thought I had the start of a cold and I didn’t feel very good today but better now.

Took it easy and lazed around. Still tired.

Many years ago I had a house full of growing plants. Over the years we got rid of all of them. You can’t be in Florida seven months at a time and expect inside growing greenery to survive.

Even outside plants were challenged by our absences. In Michigan, we did ok with outside geraniums and perennials like hostas. In Florida, while we were up north, the hot dry summers killed a lot of the plantings we tried outside. We finally settled on a few durable plants that survived well despite Florida’s heat. Poinsettias generally grow fine for a few years. I also planted a miniature rose which is doing fine. One year we tried pansies but they croaked in a hurry.

We had an inside the house potted palm which we tried to leave inside, but it was nearly dead when we got back. John planted it outside and boy, did it grow! He moved it to a place under our master bedroom window. Located there, it’s been thriving and expanding and looks lovely. He also planted a couple Michigan house plants outside our Florida condo and they are now the size of trees.

Last month I bought a potted palm for my great room, but apparently I don’t do well with inside palms so it’s nearly dead. Today I took pity on it and moved it outside and will plant it as soon as I have time (or I’ll get Mark to do it).

I’ve also killed a variable philodendron (considered extremely hearty but some white fuzzy looking bugs killed it) and some Christmas cactus which didn’t make it under my care. My orchids do ok until the blossoms fall off. (I’m trying to keep them going for possible second blooms by putting them on the lanai.) My hanging geraniums on my patio only lasted about a month but last week I replaced them with drought resistant spider plants (which I haven’t killed yet). Today I bought a lovely Norfolk Island Pine. I hope it survives my care-giving.

I hate to keep buying more, but if that’s what it takes to have growing plants in my place, I will.

My lower back has been really causing me problems. I am fine when seated, but when I walk any distance or stand for any length of time, I’m miserable.

The other day I used a shopping cart in Home Depot and put some of my weight on the cart. I was without pain. The shift of the weight to the cart lifted me enough so I was comfortable.

After that experience, I decided that, when I know I will be walking a distance, I will use a “walker” with wheels and a seat. I got one yesterday. Haven’t tried it yet, but I’m sure it’ll free me. I don’t want to rely on a walker, but there are times (like when Kelly and I go to the Christmas lights experience in Sarasota) when I know I’ll be on my feet for an extended period. I’m taking the walker with me.

Another place that the worker will be an asset is Busch Gardens. I know how far you have to walk there. A walker or a motorized cart will be mandatory.

I’m having problems with my websites. For years I’ve used a FTP program which suddenly won’t let me in.

That’s why there’s a lovely sunset as the post before this one. It’s a test.

I’ve been trying to figure out how to get into my sites (including dulcimers.com, dulcimers.biz, michclub.com and sharons-blog.com.) The sunset photo was uploaded a different way.

I will figure everyrhing out but at least I found a work-around by going directly to Bluehost (my website provider). I can use the services provided by Bluehost to transfer files to the sites. It’s just more cumbersome.

This morning I received a message I’d written ten years ago. As was intended, it was delivered ten years later.

The following is the email from the past, composed on October 06, 2009. It is being delivered from the past through FutureMe.org

Dear FutureMe,

John has just been diagnosed with a serious health condition idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (usual interstitial pneumonia) and I’m scared to death. I want so much to have him with me forever. At this point he isn’t acknowledging how serious this is. The predictions aren’t good.

I hope all of the statistics are wrong. I hope he’ll have dozens of years ahead of him. He’s only 71 and he’s always been so healthy. I’m trying to be prepared for whatever the future holds. But I’m so frightened. I hope I handle everything well. It’s hard be optimistic, and his denial makes it especially tough.

I think I have figured out my finances enough so that doesn’t worry me. But being alone. Handling everything by myself is scary. John’s my rock.

Life with John has been beautiful. We’ve had about 30 years together and I have loved them all.

It’s a tough time! I’m sending this message ten years out. I hope he’s with me when I receive it. I’ll be 77. I hope he’ll be 81. He’s such a wonderful guy.

Will we be living in Saginaw, in Florida, in a nursing home? Will I have my mom’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s and be oblivious to everything? Will we still have our wonderful life?

Sharon

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
Enough money within her control to move out…
And rent a place of her own
even if she never wants to
or needs to…
Something perfect to wear if the employer
or date of her dreams wants to See Her in an hour…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
A youth she’s content to leave behind….
A past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her Old Age….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and a black lace bra…
One friend who always makes her laugh…
And one Who lets her cry…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
A good piece of furniture not previously owned
by anyone else in her Family…
Eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
And a recipe for a meal that will make
her guests feel Honored…
A feeling of control over her destiny…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
How to fall in love without losing herself..
HOW TO QUIT A JOB,
BREAK UP WITH A LOVER,
AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT
RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP…
When to try harder…
And WHEN TO WALK AWAY…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
That she can’t change the length of her calves,
The width of her hips,
or the nature of her parents..
That her childhood may not have been perfect…
But it’s over…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
What she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…
How to live alone…
Even if she doesn’t like it…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can’t,
And why she shouldn’t take it personally…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
Where to go…
Be it to her best friend’s kitchen table…
Or a charming inn in the woods…
When her soul needs soothing…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
What she can and can’t accomplish in a day…
A month…
And a year…

Written by Pamela Redmond Satran

(Note: When I first got married, my great grandmother gave me a small red tool chest with a screw driver, a hammer, and a pair of pliers. She said every woman needed those items to avoid borrowing my husband’s. Actually my tools were frequently missing because my husband would confiscate them for his use.)

I wrote a post a while ago entitled “Too Immersed” here https://sharons-blog.com/?p=13906

It was about how I assume the attitude of what I’m reading. If it’a post-apocalyptic story, I assume that the same situation is in the present time.

I did it again… I just read at least three more post-apocalyptic EMP sci-fi stories in a row. By the time I finished the third one, I was hoarding. I was watching my use of everything. My food supplies became more important to me, my water was cherished, the temperature was too hot or too cold with concern.

When I got up in the middle of the night, I cherished the power to give me illumination to get to the bathroom.

When will I learn?

I suppose being conservative with supplies is good, but when I’m in a book of that genre, I am obsessed.

I hope it never comes to a point where I really need those conservative skills, but I’ll be prepared.

Last night I mentioned to my friend, Phil, that I planned to go to Fiore’s for fish. He was also going. Although we were going separately we decided it would be nice to be at the same table.

He called me about 15 minutes after I thought he’d arrive. (I was waiting for him.)
He’d mis-placed his car keys and couldn’t find them. I drove back to his house and picked him up and took him to Fiore’s.

Our dinner was pleasant. I was home (after dropping him off) at 8:00.

As he said, he thinks of me almost like a “sister.” That’s fine with me. I like him but certainly not romantically.

He’s definitely having problems walking so might not go to the dance tomorrow (Sunday) night. But we all enjoy his company so hope he makes it.

This noon my friend, Ron Wood, stopped over and we went to the clubhouse for lunch.

He’s a super sweet very easy going guy. We chattered about a variety of topics and he left at about 2:15. Nice experience.

At least now I can say I’ve had a “date.” It was just a casual lunch but I’d do it again in a heartbeat. I’m not anxious to be exclusively with anyone but I enjoyed Ron’s company.

I went to an Oldies but Goodies dance with Pat and her friend Joan. We enjoyed the music but I like dancing with guys and NOT ONE asked me. I danced with the girls, but there weren’t many single guys and I didn’t ask any so I didn’t dance with any males. I guess it was better than being home alone. I’d do it again, but I like prefer male dance partners.

I have definitely realized that the fabric storm protectors for the windows would still be a lot of work to put up. I contacted StormFitters and they worked up a price to install all storm rated windows. It’s a considerable expense (three times the cost of the fabric protectors) but I won’t have to worry. It will be worth it. There’s no rush now that Dorian has passed, but when a storm approaches, I don’t want a lot of work and they’ll add more to the value of the condo. I believe Tampa Electric will also give me a rebate because the storm rated windows cut down on energy loss. It’s a wise move.

Last week I agreed to buy hurricane resistant fabric covering for my windows.

As the hurricane moved past me, I realized I need to be independent. There was no one to help me and the fabric window coverings would be hard for me to put up. I called the company (Storm Fitters) and they’ll let me switch to hurricane resistant windows! The salesman will work up the difference in price. I know it’ll be more but I’ll always be ready for a storm and I won’t have to do anything (except move stuff off the patio, which is enough).

I also this afternoon worked with Hillsborough County to make sure that my deed is appropriately registered. It was supposed to be in my name with Kelly as my next of kin. Instead they’d made Kelly the owner. That would also have affected additional deductions including my homestead deduction and widow status. It’s now fixed! Yeah!!!!

And the guy came to install my garage door opener. It’s wonderful! I finally have a light in my garage and a keypad on the outside. I hooked it up to my smartphone so, even if I’m not home, I can check to see if it’s down or up. I’m happy.

Oh, yes, and Kelly and Dave’s flights were changed for December 21st. Actually American Airlines only advised me of the change to Dave’s but when I called them, I found both itineraries have been delayed about 15 minutes.

It was a productive day.

After worrying, Dorian took the hint and is staying out in the ocean on the east side of the state.

We won’t feel the effects at all.

Yes, I moved some light furniture from my open patio to my screened lanai, but I didn’t do anything major.

I’ve been concerned about hurricane preparedness but I’m too late for the window covering project this time. Hurricane Dorian is headed this way (although the actual prediction is flexible at this point).

If the current wind speed probabilities hold, could be hit by a storm rated 3 on the hurricane scale Sunday.

My food preparation (except for more dog food) is in pretty good shape. (I’ll buy some additional stuff today.)

I remember staying up all night September 9th-10th, 2017, to watch the Tampa TV channels’ websites (live feeds) as the storm hit this area. It was frightening but I needed to feel involved with a historic event. No storm had ever hit Sun City Center and done the kind of damage associated with a hurricane. As it turned out, in 2017, Irma did come through but the damage was minimal and none to my condo.

I need to batten down the hatches. My patio has a lot of furniture on it and I’ll need to move everything into my screened-in lanai or great room. Hopefully Saturday I can get my cleaning guy to help me with the two heavy loungers. If he won’t help, I may call my dance friends, Phil or Ron. I have a few days before “impact,” now predicted to be Sunday night to Monday morning. (Today is Thursday.) I will move the small stuff today and tomorrow but it’s really hot (mid-90’s) so I’ll do a little at a time. Most of the stuff is light. I’ll move the plants, small tables, and rugs. I don’t want anything to become a flying missile. On my side lanai, I have four chairs with cushions and a few tables. The cushions will be taken to the garage and the chair frames and tables stacked.

Since I’m in Florida, and we’re officially in the “storm season,” I’m very conscious of what I might need if a hurricane came through this area. I have been reviewing storm prep publications which provide checklists and I think I’m in pretty good shape.

I’d still like to look into the possibility of hurricane shutters or storm-rated windows in my dining room, master and guest bedrooms. (My great room already has hurricane rated windows so, until I get the upgrades, I could just close off those other areas and reside in the safe-window part of my condo.) I’m also considering getting a propane generator with wheels. Otherwise, I have most everything.

I could use more bottled water, but I’ve been washing out large plastic bottles and storing them in my garage freezer. Since the daily suggestion is three gallons per person, and they suggest a 3-5 day supply, I need quite a bit. I should also get more canned food and dog food, because I keep using what I buy. But I also have a lot of good frozen food which would stay frozen for a while.

If there’s ever a predicted storm, I’ll fill the bathtub in my guest bathroom with water for “flushing.” And maybe put pails of water in my master bath shower. (Reminder: Check to see if I have pails. If I don’t, buy plastic pails at Nearly New.)

I hope it never happens, but I want to be prepared. Actually in Sun City Center’s 50+ years of existence, it’s never directly hit this community. In 2017, a storm was predicted score a hit and then it veered easterly and only minor damage was inflicted on our area. But the prediction showed it could happen so I want to be ready.

If you go to my blog pages for September 2017 (to the right of this post under the “Archives” heading), you can scroll down to September 7, 2017 entitled, “Praying for friends in Florida,” and then after you read that post, read through the later posts to September 12th to see what happened when Irma went through our area.

I might buy a small propane camp stove for cooking but my grill would also work. (I would need to be able to make my coffee, even if it’s instant which I have in reserve.)

I’d need to move the deck furniture. My deck is an open area with only a roof. I’d move the furniture from the deck to my screen-enclosed lanai and stack the screened lanai furniture against the block wall. I think that would keep things from blowing around. Actually I could move the long lounge chairs from the patio to my great room (instead of the screened lanai) but that would probably bring in small critters because they crawl up into those chairs and would come inside with them. They wouldn’t hurt anything, but I’d rather not have geckos in my greatroom.

I do need to always keep my golf cart charged, my gas tank filled, and maybe fill the extra propane tank in the garage. I might even get some water purification tablets in case I need to use “questionable” water.

My radio has a hand crank on it so it’ll work with a little labor. I have a large battery intended to be used to charge cellphones, etc. As long as my smart phone is charged, I’d have communication but I need to keep everything that is battery operated at full charge status. I’d want to pre-charge my camera batteries, my computers (x 2) and my Kindle. (And yes, I can recharge my Kindle reader from that large battery.) Even if I lost power for a week, I could easily get by.

I love it here and I understand the risks from a hurricane, but I purchased flood insurance and I think I’m set.

I love to read but when I get involved in a book, I start feeling that I’m living in a similar situation.

The books which I find do this to me most are post-apocalyptic sci-fi tales.

Post-apocalyptic stories are generally about some form of invasion or destructive situation which has taken down the power grid and folks have to live in a totally different environment.

As I get into this type of book, I find myself preparing for a situation where we’d have to exist on what we have on-hand. I stock up. I become frugal. It’s silly but it feels necessary.

I’m reading one now, “Cyber Storm.” In it the internet has been taken down. I haven’t completed the story, but it’s drawing me in and I’m thinking about where I’d be if everything on-line failed. Banking, shopping, gas pumps, etc. would not be available.

Have you ever tried to shop at a store when their computers aren’t running? CVS closed when this situation occurred. Their internet connection failed. Credit cards couldn’t be accepted, prescription files were not accessible. They closed their doors.

Imagine if this happened everywhere. It sure gives you something to think about.

I’m very happy but my life would be considered dull by most folks. I’m just home sitting on my couch much of the time, especially the past couple of weeks because it’s been raining almost every day. Yup, I watch a lot of TV. Don’t accomplish much but my tiny dog, Sophie, loves it.

To be honest, I would love to go to the pool, but because of the weather threats, it’s been closed much of the time.

I do a lot of shopping online. I’ve found that Sam’s Club and Amazon deliver stuff I’d normally go out to buy.

Example: I had ants in my kitchen Saturday but it was a rainy so I ordered ant traps from Amazon and had them installed by yesterday (Sunday) afternoon. I ordered toilet tissue yesterday (it’ll be here today). The other day I realized I was low on dishwasher detergent. On Amazon, Cascade came the next day. Because I’ve paid for premium status, I never have to pay for shipping and the prices are lower than at my local store.

Do I get my housework done? Nope! I need to do laundry, organize my closet, and clean my lanai. Will it be done today? Nope! I’m going to play Euchre.

Had all my windows, screens, frames, tracks, cleaned yesterday. Looks so bright!!

Sophie has stolen my comb two times but when I firmly told her to “Stop! Bring it to Mama!” she did bring it to me and dropped it.

A few weeks ago I bought a new behind-the-door jewelry organizer. It’s not perfect but my chains no longer get tangled, and I can see what I might want to wear. A week or two ago I did a post on that purchase and used a illustration which was provided by the seller.

I am posting a photo I just took which would work if I ever needed to provide proof of what I own. Most of the jewelry is 14kt gold. Several pieces include diamonds or semi precious stones. None is extremely valuable but some was my mother’s and other pieces, were my great grandmother’s. None would bring much if sold, but they are precious to me.

But before anyone thinks about robbing me, this unit locks, but even more important, I have an excellent security system throughout my condo with cameras, etc. If anyone enters, the police would be notified. For a few hundred dollars of used jewelry, it wouldn’t be worth it.

It’s obvious I don’t need more jewelry, but I keep adding to my collection. I guess I’m hooked by the glitter and glamour of pretty things. And besides there’s lots of room in my new jewelry organizer for additional items.

This afternoon I played euchre with friends. Came home in the rain and it’s still coming down. I had thought (briefly) that I might go to Rockin Rendezvous, but I’m so comfortable and I don’t have to go out so why would I? I’m not hungry but I should probably fix something (even if it’s just a frozen dinner). I plan to just relax. I love having that flexibility. I don’t have to do anything. Tomorrow my handy man will be coming by to tackle my “to do” list. I’m also having my A/C serviced. But there’s nothing I MUST do at any time. Yes, I need to feed and care for Sophie, but I have no stress. I can just take it easy all evening and for most of the foreseeable future. Maybe I’ll watch a movie. I might read a book. Going to bed early sounds great!

My life might sound dull to some (and it’s sure quieter than I used to enjoy), but I love the tranquility I feel. I review the good times from my past, but I also look forward to fun times in the future.

Life is good!

When I got up this morning, in addition to making coffee, I went through my usual routine: cleaned up Sophie’s overnight poops, fed Sophie, exchanged soiled puppy pads for clean ones, picked up Sophie’s toys, started a load of laundry (puppy pads) and sat down with my coffee so Sophie could nap on my lap. Yup, Sophie is a little work, but she’s worth it.

When she’s on my lap, we discuss the state of the Union, I explain to her what will be going on today, and I beg her to stop licking me. (Today the house will be sprayed for bugs.)

Without her to motivate me, I bet I’d plunk down and stay put all day.

I’d miss the exciting conversations and the warm feeling of having her lay on me.

It was hot and muggy but I had nothing planned so I intended to get a few things done.

Wayfair had delivered the bedside table to match my dresser and chest but I was hoping Mark could open it and get it in place. Since he’s been ill, I checked on the weight of the stand and figured I could handle 44 pounds. I successfully opened the box and it looked ok. When I got it out of the box I found that the drawer won’t open. Obviously it has to open but maybe something is intentionally in place to stop it. I figure I’ll wait until Mark can check it out. The old bedside stand can go in my closet in place of a white plastic drawer unit. So for now the new stand is waiting to be put in place. Externally it looks fine.

Another on-line order came today, a jewelry cabinet that hangs on the back of the bedroom door. It is in a perfect location and huge. There’s a lock, places for chains, for earrings, bracelets, rings, and drawers for pendants and pins. It has led lights and a mirror on the front. Very attractive and it holds all the jewelry that I wear with room to spare. I’m glad I bought it. I had to install Command press-ons to anchor the bottom so it wouldn’t bang when I close the bedroom door. I love that I won’t have knotted chains and I can see everything to select what is best for my outfit.

Today I also bought a new San Marco bracelet.

John had bought me one many years ago and I loved it but it was lost after a Michigan Club Snowball. I looked everywhere and checked with all the lost and founds but it never turned up. So I’ve been watching for one at a good price. I found one today and bought it. I am sure I’ll love it.

So today I accomplished quite a bit but not what I’d hoped. I’d wanted to get the laundry done, and get my nightstand in place. Neither thing is accomplished. (And I really need to at least wash my Emergency Squad uniform.)

I am really pleased with the organization of my jewelry and looking forward to my new bracelet.

If Mark can’t come over this week to help me out, I think I’ll take the back off the nightstand and see what’s keeping the drawer from closing.

I’ve been re-reading my blog and came across an August 23, 2018, post which included a list of “projects” I wanted to tackle immediately. (I had only been here in Florida for a month.)

It said:

Soon (after August, 2018)

Replace carpet in MBR
Cover over the back patio & eavestroughs
Brick the driveway & sidewalk
Power wash lanai/deck
Clean out garage and organize & fix garage floor
Get a small step stool for closet
Attic clean-out

Within a year

Landscape
Replace doors on kitchen cabinets and build in bar area
Storm shutters or replace windows with hurricane resistant
New stainless range and dishwasher to match refrigerator
New front load dryer and matching washer
Replace loveseats
Replace garage screen with electric
Buy new guest bedroom furniture
Buy new master BR furniture
Small freezer for garage

That’s 17 items I wanted to complete within a year.

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What’s Not done

Brick the driveway & sidewalk
Power wash lanai/deck
Clean out garage and organize & fix garage floor
Attic clean-out
Re-do Landscape
Replace doors on kitchen cabinets and build in bar area
Storm shutters or replace windows with hurricane resistant
New front load dryer and matching washer
Replace loveseats (Did replace one but one still needs replacement)
Replace garage screen with electric
Buy new guest bedroom furniture

After being here a while I changed my priorities. The washer and dryer are still working fine so I have used them and I’m not anxious to get new. The kitchen cabinets don’t bother me enough to replace them. I haven’t been able to find a loveseat for the area near the sliders but I did get a chair to replace the other loveseat. I found that eavestroughs aren’t necessary. I’m not sure I want to replace the garage screen because I realize I need a new garage door opener first. The new opener has become a priority and it’s on my handy man’s list to do.

I want to replace the guest bedroom furniture with a Murphy bed but I need to be sure I have someone who can assemble it. Right now, because of illness, my handy man is unreliable and I fear I’ll buy it and then it won’t be put together.

The power washing of the lanai roof, the cleanout of the garage, and the organizing of the attic are items that are on my handy man’s things to do list. These items need to be done before the pavers and repair of the garage floor can be scheduled.

I can see that my handy man’s illness is slowing down some of the stuff that I want done. I like him so it’s tough to force the issue.

Storm shutters and/or replacement windows should be tackled. I’ve just put them off because other things seemed more important but since they don’t involve my handy man

Re-doing my landscape needs to wait until after the driveway pavers are in.

I may need to get another handy man and get the list organized so I can get things done in order. I know he counts on me for a good share of his income but I need to proceed.

I gave myself a few days of R&R. Today I’m trying to get some stuff done around here.

Laundry is in the washer.
Old night stand has been cleared out so Mark (who is coming tomorrow) can move in the new one.
Dishes have been washed.
Plants have been watered.

Tomorrow my plan is to have Mark do some small jobs for me:

Place night stand which was delivered this a.m.
Put shelf in cabinet in storage room
Fix bulb In lamp base
Mount new bulletin board
Break down boxes
Clean air purifier
and if there’s time, work on my brakes.

We had a fun visit but it’s time for her to leave.

Plan was to spend the morning at the pool before she would be picked up for her flight out but the weather was iffy so we had lunch and she left.

At least I hope she’ll be back in December.

Kelly got here on Thursday (a week ago today). We’ve been enjoying our time together. Lots of pool time, shopping, eating out, cart rides. She’s an easy house guest.

On November 13th, 2018, Kelly headed back to her home in California after a lovely two-week visit here in Kings Point. Kelly is coming back Thursday of this week (June 27th) and staying 12 days. I’m really looking forward to mother-daughter time with her.

The last time Kelly came, I was recently widowed. I’d come down in July and started improving the condo. I had my new bar stools, my new Samsung range and microwave. I had just gotten my new golf cart. My storage cabinets had been built in the room between the garage and kitchen. The bedroom carpet and bedspread had been updated.

But in the past seven months, I’ve made lots of additional condo changes. This time she’ll see my new dishwasher, a new roof over my back patio. New rugs on the patio. I’ve added a pretty palm leaf ceiling fan in my bedroom and hopefully handyman Mark can get a matching one up in her bedroom before she arrives. I also bought a new TV for my master bedroom and less visible is a new high quality mattress.

I have a new freezer in the garage which will be really handy if there’s ever a hurricane and I need to be without power for a few days. The suggestion is to freeze big blocks of ice to use in coolers so I’ll be saving plastic bottles to fill.

Yesterday my new master bedroom furniture (except for the new night stand) were put in place and the old stuff removed.

I’ve added some new plants to my patio and great room.

In the master bathroom I’ve had the towel bars changed and a lovely new light fixture added.

The biggest addition since her last visit is SOPHIE, my tiny dog. I didn’t have Sophie until December 4th. She’s being trained but she still has some accidents. I hope they love each other. Sophie’s playful and fun but there’s no rest when she’s around. She loves to lick. I am trying to break her but she has that little licky tongue working non-stop.

I now work at the Emergency Squad every eight days for half a day. I will leave Kel on her own on July 5th while I volunteer until noon. She can go to the pool, or do whatever she wants.

Another big change to my life is adding new friends. The one I’m closest to is Pat. She’s become a regular in my life. When Evie is here, she and I do a lot together too and Connie is a new friend. Kelly will like them.

I have become part of the “single scene” and go to singles dances. That won’t affect Kelly because obviously I won’t go to any while she’s visiting. My time with her is too precious.

I always want my daughter’s approval especially on things I do to the condo, since this place will eventually be hers. The next time she comes will be at Christmas. She and SIL Dave are going to come for a visit. He’s never been here. I hope he likes it and can see himself fitting in.

I’m really unrealistic. I realize I expect Sophie to answer me. I’ll say something like, “Sophie, do you love me?” and I expect her to answer. Maybe someday she’ll surprise me.

A rain storm in Florida is much much different than the rains I experienced in Michigan. Water doesn’t just come down, it pours out of the sky!

I only remember one storm in Michigan that came close to the rains we experience here.

There’s been a discussion because of a change in rules for clubs in Sun City Center. Some folks have referred to Kings Point as unfriendly because it’s a gated community.

Some have claimed that our HOA fees are too high. Rather than argue the point, I’d like to point out some facts: I pay $480 monthly as a HOA fee in my mid-level 2-br 2-bath 1,500 sq ft condo in Nantucket V. But I feel it’s a bargain. That fee covers my cable TV and wifi, my water, part of my insurance, my lawn care, my condo maintenance (including roof replacement, pest control, painting, paving repair), other expenses toward maintaining our buildings and private roads, our private bus system, and the salaries of our management employees. And because my community is gated, I believe but I haven’t confirmed, that I get a discount on the home-owners’ portion of my insurance.

Also, because the streets in Kings Point are “private,” being a gated community allows me the privilege of driving my golf cart on our streets (provided I have headlights and turn signals) any time I want. I don’t like to drive my car at night but I’m a very careful driver and my vision is very, very good. I am really glad my gated community allows me to use my golf cart to go to after-dark activities.

For that reason, folks who don’t own a car, often live inside our gates. We can go to the club houses, to the pools, the fitness center, dances in clubhouses, card games and bingo, even after dark.

I like the non-gated part of Sun City Center too. Lots of my friends live in SCC. I have thought about living there, but as a recent widow, the gated community gives me greater peace of mind. Everything is taken care of for me. And, as a bonus, I can use my cart after dark which will serve me as I age.

If I ever reach the point when I can’t drive, KP has a great transportation system. Note:
Three of my neighbors on my court are blind. KP allows them to stay mobile.

It’s not for everyone, but for those of us who enjoy the previously mentioned perks, Kings Point gives us a beautiful place to live.

Today I ordered a 7.1 cu. ft Frost-Free Chest Freezer by Black + Decker. My refrigerator hasn’t been working so the KPW insurance repair person brought me a loaner to use. It’s in the garage and I’m glad I have it. I realize there’d be room for a small chest-type freezer especially when the loaner has been removed.

I plan to freeze blocks of ice in case of a hurricane. I can also continue my “hoarding.” I can buy more than two Lean Cuisines at a time. I can stock up on Marie Callendar pot pies when I can get them for $2.00. It should be delivered next Tuesday. That’s the day I work at the Squad but I’ll leave a note on my front door telling the delivery person to put it in my garage. Mark (my handyman) can help me get it in place.

Mark is making a platform to go under the freezer. He’s also making an additional shelf to go in my storage cabinet.

I just discovered a new use for my Amazon Alexa. I live alone and have wondered what would happen if I fell and couldn’t get up. Yes, they sell devices which will summon help for you but you have to have them with you all the time and it would be my luck I wouldn’t have it on. They generally charge about $49 monthly. Here’s where my Amazon Alexa comes in. I just went about 25 feet from one of my Alexa devices and asked Alexa to call a number for me. (I had her dial my house phone). She put the call through easily. And I if I feel it’s necessary, I can buy another couple Echo Dots for about $30 each. I can locate them around the condo and even in the garage. Unlike the commercial help services, there’s no monthly fee. If I ever need to call 911 for help, I’m sure I can yell loud enough for one of my units to hear me and follow my command.

Obviously this was “my solution” and I never suggested that it was better than subscribing to a monitored security system but for me it’s cheaper and the likelihood that it would “be there” if needed is greater for me. (I’m surprised at the number of folks who were critical of my plan and said things like “What if you were unconscious?”)

I’ve been lazy today. It’s really HOT (95+) so even the pool didn’t sound like a good idea.

My handyguy had to cancel our appointment this morning after I’d gotten up early. Since then, I’ve done NOTHING!

I watched a couple Lifetime movies but I haven’t even had the energy to clean out the dryer full of clean clothes.

Tomorrow (Saturday) my cleaning guy comes early. Sunday I’ve committed to breakfast with my single group. Monday I work at the Emergency Squad so I have to be up at 7 a.m. Tuesday Mark (my handyman) is coming early and Thursday I have a morning eye doctor appointment.

That means that, with the exception of next Wednesday, I have to get up every morning for the next week. Next Friday I can take it easy again.

Guess I’m entitled to take today off.

I’m realizing that as I’ve gotten older, I’ve changed. Obviously everyone does, but my changes include revisions of my likes, taste, and style.

Examples:

I have always worn higher heels than others but now I find I only go with flats or very low wedge heels. I’m just not steady on higher heels and after several broken and dislocated toes, I have to stay low heeled.

I used to wear a lot of crocheted stuff, but I haven’t gone that direction for a couple years. I have several drawers full of lovely crocheted tops. I will be going through those items and deciding which to keep.

For more than 20 years, I wore large hats and longer skirts. Now I skip hats and prefer short skirts. (I do wear my Tilley hat when on the golf cart.)

My preference was traditional music. Now I don’t listen to music at all.

When John was alive we would follow the prime time TV channels. I’d watch ABC, CBS, NBC, and Fox. The hit shows were my favorites. Now I prefer movies on Lifetime. I also watch cooking shows, but most of all I like the Game Show Network.

I ignore the news. John was so addicted to it and got a local newspaper daily.

For years favorite pastime when here in Florida was the pool. I haven’t been there for months. I’d like to spend more time in the water but seems there’s always something in my way when it comes to going to the pool. I went quite a bit when I first got down here in July, but then we ran into a rainy and then a cool stretch. I was sick in December and January. Next weather just didn’t cooperate. Easter with lots of spring break kids came along and then we had the invade of the love bugs. Now things are settling down and I think I’ll be using the pools during the heat of summer.

I’ve been keeping my spending down but my plan is to replace my bedroom furniture. The current furnishings belonged to my mom and her husband. They are really old (about 1988)! Everything is out of date! Nothing matches my style. I’d love to make my bedroom a soothing oasis.

I went shopping on-line and found some lovely solid walnut furniture

I plan to buy a six drawer chest, a six drawer dresser with a mirror, a five-drawer lingerie chest, and two night stands.

Eventually I would move the file cabinet I’m currently using as a bedside table to the guest room where the dresser is now. The second pretty oval mirror that matches the guest bath would go over it. My printer would also go in that room.

Since I’ll need to combine the clothes which currently fill two rooms to one, I’ll definitely need to have the lingerie chest which is out of stock.

I could get started and order the in-stock furniture but I don’t want a mess when Kelly comes next month.